“In yaakumech” (“I love you” in Maya)
Imagine your wedding ceremony surrounded by symbols of great tradition and pre-Hispanic roots, with the music of conch shells and the aromas of honey, cacao and “balché” (Maya wine). If you decide to have your wedding or renew your vows with a symbolic, spiritual, and sacred ritual, the Maya ceremony is ideal for you.
Even though it doesn’t have legal value, it restores the union that the Maya had with nature. Normally it’s performed by a “chamán” (priest) in the Maya language, and begins one day in advance with a “temazcal” bath, that purifies and prepares the couple for their union.
On the ceremony day, the future newlyweds, dressed in white, also the guests can attend in light colors. The couple go inside a circle made out of sugar, marked on the ground by the “chamán,” who previously asked permission to the “bacabes” (Maya gods) corresponding to the four cardinal points. At the center an altar is prepared with representative elements from the four natural elements, using the colors white, black, blue, green, red, and yellow, which symbolize life and its cycles.
Just as in other religions, the couple is given symbols of prosperity. In the Maya wedding it is represented by cacao; corn, so they will always have food on their table; and honey, so the sweetness of love is always present in their relationship.
The setting is flooded with the scents of copal, cinnamon, and incense. Flowers are offered, water as a symbol of the simplicity in life, seeds and “balché,” a Maya beverage made from the bark of the tree with the same name, fermented in water. Traditional songs and music with drums, maracas and shells make this special moment mystical. The attendees surround the couple and at the end of the ceremony they light candles, illuminating their new chapter with good wishes.
Maya weddings can be held in blessed ancestral places, like caves, cenotes or in exterior settings surrounded by nature. Their simplicity, originality, and deep significance ensure that this special moment becomes a unique experience.
Article by Violeta H. Cantarell
Born in Mérida, Violeta is a communicologist dedicated to writing and creating content on tourism, fashion, and entrepreneurship. She has recently started working as an English-Spanish translator.
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